Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Altered Behaviours that weren't asked for...

Have had 2 emails in 2 days from people giving feedback on consults they had done. One was with a group of cats, the other a group of dogs.

In each case the mum's wanted to know what everyone thought of the others so this was asked. Some didn't like others and we got "why", a lot was just personality clashes or one or another despising a weakness in one of the others. At no point did I ask them to try to get on with each other better, I don't see that that is my place to ask them to do something with an animal they may not like just to satisfy us.... so all reasons and feelings were just handed back to mum, advise on how to up the bonding, and some tips to help perhaps fix any problems.

Well both emails received in the last couple of days remark that all animals are much more relaxed with all the others, they are sleeping closer, or playing together. Sad or frustrated animals are appearing more relaxed and calmer....


In reality nothing I said to, heard from or suggested to any of the animals would bring about that type of change in behaviour! So why the changes?

Is it that the feel different energy off their mums once mum understands their reasons for things? Is it that just happy to be heard they allow themselves to let go of the little things that bugged them?

To be honest I'm not sure if it's either or both or something else! What do you think????

Sunday, December 28, 2008


and if anyone wants to have some instant type chats I have a room at Paltalk where although it's set up with a "Kebzeh" heading the discussion tend to anything spiritual/energy related so feel free to come over and say hi!

I'm 'talks2' over there and am on most evenings at some stage although it does have to work around work waiting!

Hay Time!

Well our hay has been cut! WOOHOOO! Hopefully baled tomorrow before the rain that's due to hit!

Mac is still is same super confident, sweet honey and I can't believe something as simple as Smokey arriving would lift all that pressure and we can soar higher than we were before!

Smokey is working through some trust and baby issues. Not enjoying having his bridle put on which means if he sees me coming with a lead rope he's not particularly fond of responding then either LOL. He'll get there, he's such a sweet baby.

Phoenix my big girl (bullmastiff) got 2 grass seeds in her eye on Christmas Eve (what a Murpheys Law time to get them!) So she sat with a swollen eye she wouldn't open for 3 days till the vets were open again silly girl! Should have zonked her out with a bottle of whiskey and I could have pulled them out myself, they were the full blown big suckers sitting in those folds of hers!

She's fine now anyway, and Leo is waiting for normal surgery to resume at which point he'll go in and come out 2 stone lighter if you get my drift.

Marcus (the 2 legged one) has got some tummy bug with a runny (and horrendously burnt) bum poor wee tot, change his nappy and watch him wandering around like John Wayne for 5 mins.

Just waiting for him to head to bed and it to cool down a little more before I head out to play with the horses.

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Christmas is creeping up on us!

Geez where did this year go?!

Hope you all have a very merry Christmas and a safe holiday time!

May 2009 bring you just what you need hehehe.

All animals are ticking along here, dogs are good, goats are cuddly, horses are great...

Enjoy the time with family and friends and remember what we're celebrating... the b/day of the best energy manipulator this world has ever seen!

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Finished Amelia Kinkade's Book...

and I must confess I don't like her book as much as Marta Williams ones, although it did have some gems in it, by the end of hearing about all these wonderful people who could get this, this and the other from animals nonstop it only served to make me wonder how I can do it? and I already am!!!!! yeah I know, hearing just how wonderful others are can make that self doubt even worse! LOL.

Still it DID have some gems in there and very good at explaining just how the energy aspect of it all works so worth a read....

Education for both of us...

I swear sometimes I get the feeling I can "communicate" with everyone else's animals but mine! LOL, it's just so easy to "find" everyone elses animals, hard to recognise and pinpoint mine! So trusting of course, no matter what, they he (Smokey) can hear and understand ME even when I'm to thick to pinpoint him we had a chat yesterday....

Tuesday was an exciting day, had a lesson on Mac and while putting him back in the paddock I discovered Smokey had once again fallen out of his area (while I was putting Mac away!)

He took 1/2 the sheep netting away from the fence (lucky it was only tacked on temporarily to stop youngest goat getting under the fence!) but upon falling out of his taped area he was in chest high hay grass!!!!! Ever seen a Kai not wanting to get caught?!!!!

He didn't even fall for the handfuls of hay left in Mac's bucket *sigh* so I went inside got HIS feedbowl with a handful of chaff (this is 1/2 hour later!) at which point he promptly said "feed?!" and hey presto he was caught! Brat!

Chucked him in the backyard (long rich, clover filled grass!) till I could sort his fence out and remove the sheep netting etc, so decided in his high pressure day to keep the pressure on him and bridle him up for the first time.... Took about 5 mins of him going backwards away from it, till I used my brains and turned his butt around so he could only back INTO the shed. I also told him Sola would be very disappointed with him when I told her how he was behaving, at which point (who knows which thing worked or if it was a combination!) he took the bridle going on without a fuss!

It WAS a high pressure day for him tho so he was not smoochy at all LOL.

Yesterday I followed up with the bridle again. Turned him straight round bum into the shed and he was STILL avoiding it! Told him again Sola would be so sad that he hasn't remembered what he was taught, and again, hey presto, bit in mouth, bridle on (getting the picture of how much he thinks of Sola?!)

Did some more work with him and filed his feet (and fingers) again, gave him his feed and then told him I really really REALLY needed a cuddle from him, and I hate feeling like we have this separation between us and I know trust is earned and it's all early days BUT I need him to show me he's willing to try etc etc etc. Had a good old heart to heart with him. He finished eating and had a couple of mouthfuls of grass which I said he could do (gets told off for trying to snatch mouthfuls while working of course!) he had one mouthful sniffed another and then spun around to where I was sitting on a log holding his leadrope.

He gave me my cuddles! :o)

He took my cap off my head and nuzzled all thru my hair, he kissed my nose, my cheeks and snuffled all over my face, he let me pull his lips and kiss him, scratch his feet for him and he did all that of his own volition and for that time we did nothing but love each other, no pressure of education, or desensitizing or anything, just the two of us meeting in love, it was lovely!

Last night when giving him more grass and today doing the same he "allowed" me to give him scratches on his body and bum while he was head down eating the grass! His biggest trust issue is that being touched while his head is down and he's vulnerable. So although I got some little snippets of feelings from him while we were having our cuddles he spoke most clearly of all thru his physical actions and that was just what I needed right then, a big physical cuddle with him!

Friday, December 12, 2008

All are Settling Juuuuuust Fine...

Smokey is settling in really well. Bought myself a rasp and a hoof knife to deal to his split hoof as it needed attention and he's not quite ready for the farrier (but not far off it by gum!) so took some skin off (damn those new rasps are sharp!) and filed all 4 feet (a token gesture in reality!) Chopped a 'V' into the split (still needs more but I don't know what I'm doing LOL so it'll do for now!)

He's getting scratches loose in the paddock, will even position his bum for me hehehe.

Mac is a new horse. Not only is his new saddle going great on him, but his face is just worry free now. It's funny I know I like Smokey A LOT, and I was really worried about having the "equivalent" feelings for him as for Mac and Mac getting a bit anti because of it (very jealous, one person horse there!) Well I see Mac's face when I walk out to him and it's like seeing a new horse! What I feel for Smokey doesn't even enter the same ball park as what I feel for Mac and Mac now knows it, Smokey isn't a threat any more and the "feeling" I have from/with Mac is all new, it's very secure, it's very complete and in truth this wee test has proven NOTHING will ever alter or threaten what we have.... Fabulous! And the spark in Mac's eye is so great to see again.

The funny thing is if I have Mac or Roger out and take them up to Smokey in his area (tape between them) Smokey is all "Oh OK, I'm interested but I'll stay very polite and back here out of the way."

When I have SMOKEY out and take him up to see Mac and Rog, he'll nibble at Mac's nose to make Mac pull away from being nosey and away from me! You can just see him saying "I'M with her, not YOU!" If I give Mac a cuddle, Smokey will try to pull me away LOL, so very cute!

Did 5 mins of some of Parelli's stuff with him 2 sessions ago, he understood what I wanted by the end but not up on the ball... The next day we did it again and he was "yep, know this!" I do the "KA says" game. He has to stay by my shoulder, walk - he walks, run - he trots, halt, back up etc etc. The first day he was trying to be ahead of me, and not paying attention, 2nd day and I couldn't trick him! Such a wee sausage!

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Language of Miracles by Amelia Kinkade

Not my favourite style of writing, writes very much as she (or I LOL) would talk, but it does serve to keep it simple enough even when she's getting scientific on HOW energy exchanges work.

Got to a point where she is listing out all the questions you could try asking an animal to practice on and with those questions she tells you how to feed out the questions to the animal, ie visualising or feeling what you're wanting to ask and gauging the response from the animal to the question. Very good! That's stuff I was doing anyway but never really knew if it was how others did it or whether I'd just stumbled across something, so nice to know that is how others do it, so know that advice I'm feeding out for clients is 'correct' so to speak!

For someone who accidentally fell into doing this, it's actually really nice to have confirmation that I'm doing it "right" as it were LOL, you know those self doubt demons that we have to face? Amelia says she STILL faces them, so a very encouraging book to say "yes, you're on the right track, been there before you but still walked the same path."

Monday, December 1, 2008

Beyond Words by Marta Williams

gosh, I'm wondering why I didn't start reading these animal communication books years earlier! Probably because I didn't know it existed LOL.

Only the first few pages into Marta's book and she shares a story about how animals KNOW how/what we're feeling and will interact with us etc.

She is doing a workshop with a group and they've all had a horse to go and talk with and they meet back in the stall of her horse. A chick came forward to give her feedback of what she'd got and Marta's horse turned his head and put his head over her shoulder and his cheek against hers for about 3 mins and then yawned or something. Marta couldn't explain it because it was very unlike him to touch anyone and everyone asked her why he'd done it she had to say she didn't know.

When they got back inside and they were busy doing something else, Marta took the opportunity to link in with the horse and ask him.........

Wow, that was a great story to hear because I often think these "famous" people are just in constant communication, but to know that even tho she was right there beside him she had no idea why he'd done it, and "had to link in with him" afterwards to ask him about it.... makes me feel a less distanced from that image I had given to them!

Finished the book and it's great, need to go thru it again a little slower (it's an easy read because it's just stories etc) but there are stories in there about talking to water and nature etc too which is cool..... didn't like the story of the trembling pine tree amongst all the Christmas trees, never liked killing a live tree for Christmas anyway but that sort of backed THAT feeling up to the nth degree!!!

Having finished that book in Christchurch I went visiting Danny a girlfriend down there, lent her the book for the night and then went ghost hunting (my first time!) Danny seems to have luck seeing things like that and she lives 2 mins away from a new subdivision where ghosts have been seen and big Maori massacres happened.... mothers drowned their babies in the lagoons to save them being eaten or enslaved.

So we went for a drive and parked up, wound down windows, got eaten alive instantly by mozzies (who the heck would buy there with all those mozzies around?!!!!)

But we were too busy yacking about things and nothing was "visable" so we went for a drive up further where it's still farmland and a bit scrubby and drove thru there. Got to a point where I was just thinking "strange energy" and Danny said "that's the lagoon where they had eels and the food supply (and here was me thinking she was going to say "where they drowned their babies.") So we drove on and still saw nothing and I said that I thought she was going to say about the drownings and she said she had been going to but thought better about saying it!) By then it was 10pm so I dropped Danny home. As I drove off down the road towards town I talked to the strange energy I felt and asked if it was anyone... Amongst other vague feelings I got a very clear "come back!"

So I turned around and headed back thinking I wasn't going to far down that gravel road cause I couldn't remember which way I had to turn to get around the area and didn't want to get lost in there! Parked up just past that lagoon area (which you can't see) and talked with the energy.

I think I got a young female.... she felt guilty for hiding and she heard screams of her family etc. She was definitely "stuck" in that negative energy and I didn't know how to unstick her! Did all the usual talk linking her back to the whole etc but she was still stuck.... after about 20 mins I headed off into town again and as I was going I suddenly thought of trying to link her to loved ones (like I do with living animals who are grieving for lost ones etc)

So I called in the mother of the energy and the father of the energy and definitely had 2 other energies there, left them with her (was tired and losing interest by then to be honest LOL) but got a very strong feeling of gratitude from the 2 new energies there.

Was an interesting thing to happen although in reality rather vague... I was hoping after reading the book I may have linked with the land itself, but it was definitely a person that popped up.